* I am hurt, and I can't accept the fact that the very person who hurt me is now getting praise from others. They don't know this person like I know them.
* I have been the top of my class since middle school, graduated with a full-ride scholarship. My peers and family are no where on my level. All they would do is bring me down.
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Bitterness, jealousy, selfishness, revenge, unforgiveness, ungratefulness etc.! What do all of these have in common? They each have an element of PRIDE. Maybe the above scenarios sound familiar in our own lives. Perhaps, we have never flat out said those things, but they could very well be in our thoughts. Pride has very much to do with our thoughts and how we perceive ourselves.
The first scenario regarding recognition is definitely familiar to me. Recently I have seen an ugly area in my life where I am feeling the need to be recognized for things I do. From a human perspective we all may have different definitions of what pride is, but because I believe Christ DIED so He could SAVE ME (that is enough reason to correct our pride), and because I believe the Bible to be true; here is a clear definition of what pride is: Pride is being motivated by our own desires while refusing to acknowledge our dependence upon Him. Pride is also a deceiver, making us believe we DESERVE higher than we should....(E.g: Satan deceiving Adam and Eve) .
Consider Isaiah 14:13, where it talks about how Satan wanted to be like "The Most High." Now I don't think that all people who may struggle with pride intentionally think they are above God, however pride can make us lose focus of some very important truths! Here are 2 ways of battling pride.
(The following "Truths" were found from "Relationships: A Mess Worth Making" by Tim Lane and Paul Tripp).
Truth 1 (Identity): Identity is who we are. We are all sinners in desperate NEED of a Savior. No matter how you look at it, this makes everyone in common! On this earth we are all sinners interacting with other sinners.
Truth 2 (Worship): Worship is essentially acknowledging who God is. God is love, God is Sovereign. God created US. God sent His Son as a Savior.
So we must remember who we are, and remember who God is; under the basis of what Christ did. When we remember this, we can overcome pride.
Ephesians 2:8-10 sums it up beautifully:
Verses dealing with Pride:
http://encouragingbiblequotes.com/versespridea.html
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